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Don't Ever Compare Your Chapters in Life with Someone Else's Chapters


We are all born from different parents and grown up in different places, no one would experience the exact same thing. There were people who were privileged enough to be raised by rich parents but that doesn't guarantee that their lives would be great in the end. There were also people who were raised from parents who were not that rich but always teach good things to their children and always live happily.

Sometimes comparing ourselves to others can be a good thing if get motivated by it, but it would be bad if get down because we feel nothing compared to them. We are all have different start points in this life and our own privileges, there's no need to compare our lives to others. And remembering that we also have different goals in this life, all we need to compared to is our past selves.

We only live once, so we need to always be happy and not worrying about what others would say if we haven't achieved some of the things that we still can't achieve, no need to rush.

With this, I just want to remind myself especially, that everyone's life is different, no need to compare because all we need to focused on is ourselves.

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